Impatient and Alive

Is patience an innate quality ....i firmly believe so

Some may acquire it over time (trust me it takes years and a lot of bothersome people to get there! ;) )   ; but most struggle with it

In some the lack of it or a limited quota manifests itself as 'exuberance' , 'enthusiam' or in more common terms - impatience

The person might be the same , with the same temprament - but the above observations vary completely on 'Who' is dealing with them , 'When' , and for 'What'

Ofcourse i fall in the above category :) ..

While a lot of people find impatience ..impertinent and annoying ...it also brings the spark and zing to the lives of the very patient souls

Impatience has its perks and pitfalls - while it brings out the risk taker in you and makes to try what is new and different ;  drives high energy levels and spontaniety to deliver more and better results

However  it might lead you to lose an opportunity which was just around the corner before you drove past it  and more often than not it also goes hand in hand with speaking before you think , which can be disastrous at times :P

Patience has it's many virtues - clear headed decision making  waiting for the opportune moment ; but overthinking might also mean undue proscrastination or no decision at all and missing the right moment to speak up

Infinite patience based on experience and wisdom is the touchstone we all strive for , but till then we need to find a balance between the two

So while i patiently wait to become patient ... i choose impatience ...speaking my mind .. to atleast feel alive !!! Regrets of speaking your mind sometimes when it was better to be patient ...driving faster than required .. will remain but atleast my impertinence will bring some zing to a crabby patient soul :) !